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Alicia's Story
I am a very loving and caring mother and activist
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The Bullsh*t
The Afterward Bull |
Afterward Bull Pt.2 |
Prior to 2016
For 10 years I was a victim of domestic violence-
these are just some of the things elijah mcloren vick has done to me...He pushed me into a wall while I was holding our 9 month old son; He pushed me off the bed with our newborn; left me at the mall 9 months pregnant. I was choke slammed into our baby’s playpen; Shut outside with little clothes on to have to break a window to get back inside; He smacked the Bible out of my hand; Pushed me into a closet door fracturing my pelvis; He punched the screen to my Macbook while I was using it, shattering it; He completely destroyed our house by punching holes all down the hallway walls. He punch the bathroom door completely in half; daily emotional abuse, many instances of me
being in our room screaming at his hand...but the worst was yet to come.
May 2016
It became life or death. I had to get out by any means. I found a place to hide out, but he found me through google location and came to the house knocking on the door for an hour. They no longer wanted me there.
May 22, 2016- He threw our son’s favorite tricycle that he loved so much at me with all his might, barely missing me in front of our daughter. She immediately ran screaming saying “its a monster, its a monster, help” to the neighbor’s. He ran after her and she immediately turned nice to him saying “oh hey daddy.” He is truly a terrorist.
Early June- He was charged with communicating threats after he said he would kill me
June 11- He threw that same tricycle into my friends’ windshield, which I had to pay for. He then jumped on top of the windshield with his feet smashing it in. He then grabbed me from behind by my neck and slammed me onto the ground. I was on the phone with my mother and step father at this time and they called the police. When he heard the sirens coming he ran away. This whole ordeal had me in a place to where I did not know what was going on. I did not understand the cycle of events that were occurring or how to end them. I felt that having people around was a way to stay safe while trying to liberate myself and the children from the situation.
Late June- the perpetrator said that he was in Washington after he fled. At some point he got arrested for the charge Assault on a Female.
For 10 years I was a victim of domestic violence-
these are just some of the things elijah mcloren vick has done to me...He pushed me into a wall while I was holding our 9 month old son; He pushed me off the bed with our newborn; left me at the mall 9 months pregnant. I was choke slammed into our baby’s playpen; Shut outside with little clothes on to have to break a window to get back inside; He smacked the Bible out of my hand; Pushed me into a closet door fracturing my pelvis; He punched the screen to my Macbook while I was using it, shattering it; He completely destroyed our house by punching holes all down the hallway walls. He punch the bathroom door completely in half; daily emotional abuse, many instances of me
being in our room screaming at his hand...but the worst was yet to come.
May 2016
It became life or death. I had to get out by any means. I found a place to hide out, but he found me through google location and came to the house knocking on the door for an hour. They no longer wanted me there.
May 22, 2016- He threw our son’s favorite tricycle that he loved so much at me with all his might, barely missing me in front of our daughter. She immediately ran screaming saying “its a monster, its a monster, help” to the neighbor’s. He ran after her and she immediately turned nice to him saying “oh hey daddy.” He is truly a terrorist.
Early June- He was charged with communicating threats after he said he would kill me
June 11- He threw that same tricycle into my friends’ windshield, which I had to pay for. He then jumped on top of the windshield with his feet smashing it in. He then grabbed me from behind by my neck and slammed me onto the ground. I was on the phone with my mother and step father at this time and they called the police. When he heard the sirens coming he ran away. This whole ordeal had me in a place to where I did not know what was going on. I did not understand the cycle of events that were occurring or how to end them. I felt that having people around was a way to stay safe while trying to liberate myself and the children from the situation.
Late June- the perpetrator said that he was in Washington after he fled. At some point he got arrested for the charge Assault on a Female.
July 1- I had friends and friends of friends over at my house. I was told that I would be notified if the perpetrator got out of jail. I was in a position at the time of vulnerability created by the perpetrator, which caused our family to be weak.The situation was to where I had invited a couple friends over, but they incited their friends and at this point i wanted everyone to leave. I called the person who seemed to be most dominant among the guests aside to ask them to ask everyone to leave. To my surprise, he tried to advance me and started pulling on my clothes. I was saying no, but he was still pursuing the act. At this very moment, the dirtbag elijah, who, if he was in the right frame of mind through it all, could have saved the day. Yet, he busted in and started punching and fighting. The next thing I remember was waking up my mouth was pouring blood. My son called the police. The people who were there tried to jump him but he fought them. Once again he disappeared. He had punched me in the face , knocking me unconscious, fracturing my 4 bottom teeth from the bone, pushing them back into my mouth and knocking out one tooth (which I horrifyingly found later while moving out of that house by myself). They did x- rays to see if I had swallowed it, but it wasn’t there. They did surgery and placed the teeth back. Thank God they went back but they weren’t the same. I stayed in the hospital for a week, more because it was a safe place. After this I went to a domestic violence shelter and stayed there for about 2 weeks. The children were with my grandparents. When they first saw me again the first thing they said was oh good mommy you’re not bleeding anymore. The next week my grandparents let the children go with him. I was weak.
August 2016- My biggest thing at this time was finding safety. It was not safe at our home. I stayed with a friend for a while and was making the steps daily to find a place. In the place where I was, I had to walk to the library about a mile everyday to use the internet and try to work on making things happen. I had gotten connected with Triangle Family Services and they help with deposit and 1st month rent for people in similar situations.
September 2016- One early morning when I got to the library, the perpetrator was there. Later I learned that he found me again through hacking my email and getting location from google. I tried to run but he grabbed me and put me into his car. He took me to a location back in the woods of Hillsboro while I begged him not to kill me. I was exhausted. He took me to some people’s house who had taken him in and the children were there. I was so happy to see them and to be with them again. He talked to the people about renting him a van to drive back to Washington and they did. We stayed there for about a week and then drove to Washington. My 2 oldest sons were still at their grandparents.
October 2016- Washington was a nightmare. He dragged me by my legs down the basement stairs into the basement on an almost daily basis and tortured me. I was being emotionally abused and being put into massive amounts of fear to try and tear me down and break me down. He forced me to strip and put me into a general mindset to do what I was told without question.
February 2017- One day after he had choked me, I was able to convince him to go alone to pick up the children from daycare. While he was gone I ran to the police station. They let me know about the local shelter where I could find safety. I had to develop a plan to be able to get out with the children. Some days later I found a way out and the children and I went to the shelter. We stayed there for a few days and then we flew back to North Carolina. I was pregnant.
March 2017- through Triangle Family Services I found an apartment in Raleigh and they helped me so much by paying the 1st month rent and deposit. The children and I were finally safe from him.
June 2017- He found out where we lived and he came and took the children back to Washington. By the time he was there for a week or so I felt my only option was to say I would be with him. He came and brought the children back and was there for the birth of our child and moved in.
November 2017- we moved to a house in Durham. Since May of 2016 I had been planning a hiphop festival, which was set to debut in June 2018. I faced many challenges but did not give up. From November till June, the hiphop festival was the biggest part of everything. The children were in school and enjoying the neighborhood. The perpetrator was on probation so any infraction he knew would cost him. This controlled his behavior a great deal. He did a lot to try and sabotage the upcoming event, everyday arguing about petty things to try and distract from the goal. Once I started conversing with famous artists and looking at major sponsorships, he started trying to get more involved.
NC Hiphop Festival Instagram
March 2017- through Triangle Family Services I found an apartment in Raleigh and they helped me so much by paying the 1st month rent and deposit. The children and I were finally safe from him.
June 2017- He found out where we lived and he came and took the children back to Washington. By the time he was there for a week or so I felt my only option was to say I would be with him. He came and brought the children back and was there for the birth of our child and moved in.
November 2017- we moved to a house in Durham. Since May of 2016 I had been planning a hiphop festival, which was set to debut in June 2018. I faced many challenges but did not give up. From November till June, the hiphop festival was the biggest part of everything. The children were in school and enjoying the neighborhood. The perpetrator was on probation so any infraction he knew would cost him. This controlled his behavior a great deal. He did a lot to try and sabotage the upcoming event, everyday arguing about petty things to try and distract from the goal. Once I started conversing with famous artists and looking at major sponsorships, he started trying to get more involved.
NC Hiphop Festival Instagram
June 2018 Event took place
September 2018- moved out of the house
October 2018- We went to Oklahoma to escape from hurricane Florence that was about to hit NC. My mother, Juanita Lee, decided to allow my 2 oldest sons to stay with her against my will. She tried to undermine my authority, but they were using the behavior of the perpetrator as the reasoning for such. The day she took them she said to me, while I was reading them a book, “ain’t gone be no homeschooling in this house.” She tried to make out her taking them as the right thing to her friends, but in reality she was against me and was trying to hurt me. She conceived me at 15 and did not raise me. She has completely skipped over her responsibility as my parent, and then tried to come in and a be a parent to my sons. The perpetrator's cousin was moving out of his house. We took over his lease. Perpetrator was still on probation so the physical abuse was low. Emotional abuse was still occurring.
October 2018- I booked his flight wrong and we had to drive to Georgia. While I was in the passenger seat he started punching me with the back of his fist for the mistake that I made. I had him pull over at a park and i called the police. He found out and picked me up and put me into the car and sped away.
February 2019- Went to NC and was able to get my sons from my mother’s house, we all went back to Oklahoma.
April 2019-May 2019- Went to visit NC and sons held up in my mother’s house again. Elijah left us. The children and I stayed for 6 weeks in hotels. I was pregnant not wanting to leave my sons in a different state. I met a nice elder muslim who invited us to their mosque at this time. The children and I went the next night and enjoyed The Eid with them, it was beautiful. The sisters bought me a lot of clothes from this really cool thrift store by NC State mosque. The day after meeting them our car was repossessed from our hotel in the middle of the night. The company had a tracking device on it and came from Oklahoma to get it. Thank God I did not hear the receptionist calling and knocking on the door because I would have been distraught to see them drive away with all of our things. Me 7 months pregnant with the 4 small ones. The lady at the hotel, Asia, who became my good friend after this was able to cover my room with her employee benefits for 2 nights. We had to leave and go back to OK.
August 2019- Hired a lawyer to get my sons back. I hired a lawyer in NC who said it is under OK jurisdiction. Hired a lawyer in OK, judge saying it is NC jurisdiction. Stuck between the courts. Also being torn with the type of person who I know he is, but my mother not being any better and wanting my children to be safe above all else.
September 2018- moved out of the house
October 2018- We went to Oklahoma to escape from hurricane Florence that was about to hit NC. My mother, Juanita Lee, decided to allow my 2 oldest sons to stay with her against my will. She tried to undermine my authority, but they were using the behavior of the perpetrator as the reasoning for such. The day she took them she said to me, while I was reading them a book, “ain’t gone be no homeschooling in this house.” She tried to make out her taking them as the right thing to her friends, but in reality she was against me and was trying to hurt me. She conceived me at 15 and did not raise me. She has completely skipped over her responsibility as my parent, and then tried to come in and a be a parent to my sons. The perpetrator's cousin was moving out of his house. We took over his lease. Perpetrator was still on probation so the physical abuse was low. Emotional abuse was still occurring.
October 2018- I booked his flight wrong and we had to drive to Georgia. While I was in the passenger seat he started punching me with the back of his fist for the mistake that I made. I had him pull over at a park and i called the police. He found out and picked me up and put me into the car and sped away.
February 2019- Went to NC and was able to get my sons from my mother’s house, we all went back to Oklahoma.
April 2019-May 2019- Went to visit NC and sons held up in my mother’s house again. Elijah left us. The children and I stayed for 6 weeks in hotels. I was pregnant not wanting to leave my sons in a different state. I met a nice elder muslim who invited us to their mosque at this time. The children and I went the next night and enjoyed The Eid with them, it was beautiful. The sisters bought me a lot of clothes from this really cool thrift store by NC State mosque. The day after meeting them our car was repossessed from our hotel in the middle of the night. The company had a tracking device on it and came from Oklahoma to get it. Thank God I did not hear the receptionist calling and knocking on the door because I would have been distraught to see them drive away with all of our things. Me 7 months pregnant with the 4 small ones. The lady at the hotel, Asia, who became my good friend after this was able to cover my room with her employee benefits for 2 nights. We had to leave and go back to OK.
August 2019- Hired a lawyer to get my sons back. I hired a lawyer in NC who said it is under OK jurisdiction. Hired a lawyer in OK, judge saying it is NC jurisdiction. Stuck between the courts. Also being torn with the type of person who I know he is, but my mother not being any better and wanting my children to be safe above all else.
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October 2019- Around this time is when I learned about narcissism. I learned that everything I had been through was a result of narcissism, I got educated and learned how to protect myself from a person with this disorder.
May 1, 2020 on another attempt to get the boys from NC here is the perpetrator my ex, the narcissist, talking about how he doesn't want the children.
May 1, 2020 on another attempt to get the boys from NC here is the perpetrator my ex, the narcissist, talking about how he doesn't want the children.
👇🏾 Me trying to keep relationship together
👆🏾 This is his response to my genuine effort. smh
July 2020- We were supposed to be going camping. Perpetrator tried to ruin it just like he ruins all other family outings by waiting until everyone is in the car to say he’s not going. He manufactured anger and ended up slamming my hand in the door to the house. He said “you take the kids camping by yourself.” I realized at this moment that if he hasn’t changed by now, that he would never change. Yes, it took me way too long to get to this point. At this point i could say that was 100% sure that he would never ever change. This realization is what gave me the push i needed to I took the children and left. This was our opportunity to flee and we took it. We went to North Carolina to get my oldest sons from my mother who is also a narcissist. We were already staying in hotels in Oklahoma, so we went to NC and did the same finding balance. And we only stay in 4 star hotels. I have been fully aware for the last 2 years that once I have all of my children with me and safe, is when we can all move forward in progress. There has been no way for us to progress with our family being under attack. We got some land and started clearing it, healing the children, meditating and finally finding consistency on a daily basis for the children to show them that everyday life can be ok without chaos, hatred and anger.
These are some of the texts I received shortly after leaving.
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August 2020 we had already acquired the land before we saw it. Choosing a plot that was an hour for where my sons were being held to continue that battle. 1 hour is a heck of a lot better than 19 hours. The children in this picture have been there to see "grandma" take and hold their brothers, cutting off their relationship with them not being able to talk to each other. Divide and conquer and isolation is a clear tactic of the evil narcissist. There is no need for anyone to try to put it together to be something else. Who can operate being under attack? And the attacks have not stopped. 1st it was Juanita and Elijah and now it is dhs and elijah. The evil will be eradicated from our lives and we will find peace soon.
October 2020- My oldest son came back to me of his own will once he found out I was no longer with the perpetrator.
November 30, 2020- used law enforcement and was able to finally get my younger son from my mother’s house after such a long and hard struggle. I had all of my children together for the first time in a long time. We all rode to Walmart together and my 16 year old played the Akon song, “nobody wants to see us together but it don’t matter no, cause I’ve got you.” This is now our song. We were together in peace for almost 12 hours...
December 1, 2020- Juanita called dhs and made allegations about a place where she had never been. When called by a friend she advised “had I not used the police to get my son back” this would not have happened. DHS came manipulated by her with 10 cops mentioning her name. I didn’t let them trespass the property because they were mentioning her name having no idea what I had been through.
December 2, 2020- dhs came back with 20 cops with assault rifles and kidnapped the children without a court order and illegally took all 8 of them to my mother, an act of conspiracy. The dhs worker stole my keys and purse, took my partner Todd to jail with the charge of resisting with no preceding charge when he was merely walking down our property with them to protect us from them with their unnecessary weapons. They later admitted under oath that they made up a story in their petition about us having weapons in order to get their ex parte order. (this is filmed)
December 5, 2020- I was informed by my son that the children were taken to an alternate residence to stay. I called 911 and was able to speak with their on call child welfare dispatcher. They were able to send someone out to the residence where I met there with law enforcement for the protection of the children. Juanita said she was taking them back with her and they were not going to spend the night. They ended up spending the night anyway as she lied.
December 10, 2020- had to wait 7 days to go to court. Represented myself and got their non secure custody order dissolved. The perpetrator was notified of court because my mother gave all of the children’s information and his information. He was at court. After court he held me for an hour and a half trying to make up for the last 5 months without his abuse. He wanted a divorce right then and there, he wanted me to go to lunch with him, he wanted the car, he wanted me to go back to Oklahoma with him and then he settled on the kids. ( I have the full recording of this). I cried, begging because getting the children back from her was a real victory after the 2 years that I had been fighting to have them all together again. I was able to get him to leave me alone by telling him that I had divorce papers in the car. I left, but my partner was in the courthouse trying to get the dissolution order. On the phone he told me he asked them if he could go pick up the kids, they told him no. They took them from me, they had to give them back to me. Due to the further negligence and malfeasance of dss, they did not call me at all to arrange the return of the children. They disregarded the court order and called only the perpetrator. He went to my mother’s house and of course she would give them to him because her interest is to hurt me. The 3 of them, my mother, the perpetrator and dss conspired together to try and keep the children out of my reach. He violated the court order and immediately brought them to Oklahoma and hid them from me.
This is the text thread between Elijah and Juanita with them conspiring for him to steal the children
Full Audio of Elijah Outside the courthouse torturing me to prevent me from picking up the children. With his narcissistic selfishness that it took so long to escape.
December 19- I found his girlfriend on facebook and saw that the children were being left with her as he was never there. She let me talk to the children on video message of which every call was recorded. The children were sick and not being well taken care of. After he found out I was talking to his girlfriend he blocked me from her facebook. I was not able to see or check on them and they were sick. She already had 2 children, one of which is a 2 year old with autism. She did not have the capacity to care for our 5 children.
elijah admitting to the abuse
elijah- "you're a c*nt alicia"
elijah rambling on and on about what he thinks I need to do
Elijah the abuser, go to therapy for my abuse of you before you see the children
December 22, 2020- I was able to get an emergency custody order to get the children from him. He had sent our 9 year old to Washington with his sister and I was not able to talk to her for 3 weeks. He was using the dissolved non-secure custody paperwork to sway people to be against me. He used it to persuade his sister to keep my daughter from me.
December 29- I flew to Washington to get a writ of habeas corpus to get my daughter from her.
January 1- I was able to get her and we flew back on January 1. I had all of my children together for the first time for more than 1 day (2 days this time).
January 4- Was the show cause hearing for my abuser on the emergency custody order. Any time he or my mother talks to someone before me, that person thinks that I am nothing without even knowing me, it is the nature of evil of narcissism. I should not have gone to the hearing and should have just took my babies and left. I went and have only been treated worse by my oppressor. The judge acted as if she already knew me, she was very disrespectful and he was able to also pull her in with the dissolved non-secure custody order, her not being able to comprehend the matter. When I went for the emergency custody order I did not talk about all of the trauma from North Carolina and only stuck to the present neglect that the children were experiencing. The judge did not like being presented with this info by him in his manipulation. He convinced her that I was homeless and she could not understand that I was staying in a hotel in Oklahoma because I do not live in OK. She decided to give him custody of the children and to call dss to investigate. A nightmare!!! He once again, found where I was and I have no idea how, coming with the police to take the babies away. Just before he had knocked on the door, we all looked out the hotel room window and noticed all of our tires were flat. He slashed all 4 of my tires right before he came to get the babies.
January 6- The perpetrator was kicked out of his girlfriend’s house and moved to his sister’s house who is diagnosed schizophrenic and has a reputation within the family for her unreasonable behavior. Had a followup call with Moore County NC Dss which is recorded. Their clear incompetence is displayed throughout the call, having the nerve to, after they kidnapped our children with assault rifles without a court order, to say that we did not ask them if we could come to Oklahoma. And then when I asked them the reason why I was in Oklahoma, them knowing everything relating to the perpetrator taking the kids and bringing them across state lines, they said we came because we wanted to.
December 29- I flew to Washington to get a writ of habeas corpus to get my daughter from her.
January 1- I was able to get her and we flew back on January 1. I had all of my children together for the first time for more than 1 day (2 days this time).
January 4- Was the show cause hearing for my abuser on the emergency custody order. Any time he or my mother talks to someone before me, that person thinks that I am nothing without even knowing me, it is the nature of evil of narcissism. I should not have gone to the hearing and should have just took my babies and left. I went and have only been treated worse by my oppressor. The judge acted as if she already knew me, she was very disrespectful and he was able to also pull her in with the dissolved non-secure custody order, her not being able to comprehend the matter. When I went for the emergency custody order I did not talk about all of the trauma from North Carolina and only stuck to the present neglect that the children were experiencing. The judge did not like being presented with this info by him in his manipulation. He convinced her that I was homeless and she could not understand that I was staying in a hotel in Oklahoma because I do not live in OK. She decided to give him custody of the children and to call dss to investigate. A nightmare!!! He once again, found where I was and I have no idea how, coming with the police to take the babies away. Just before he had knocked on the door, we all looked out the hotel room window and noticed all of our tires were flat. He slashed all 4 of my tires right before he came to get the babies.
January 6- The perpetrator was kicked out of his girlfriend’s house and moved to his sister’s house who is diagnosed schizophrenic and has a reputation within the family for her unreasonable behavior. Had a followup call with Moore County NC Dss which is recorded. Their clear incompetence is displayed throughout the call, having the nerve to, after they kidnapped our children with assault rifles without a court order, to say that we did not ask them if we could come to Oklahoma. And then when I asked them the reason why I was in Oklahoma, them knowing everything relating to the perpetrator taking the kids and bringing them across state lines, they said we came because we wanted to.
Follow up Call with Moore County DSS
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Follow up call with North Carolina Child Welfare Director Theresa Strom
January 7- the dss worker came to our hotel room and I was able to explain the entire situation to her, which she seemed to understand. She let me know that she does not have any safety concerns with me. Supervisor advising it takes 30 days for their investigation to have report ready for judge.
January 7-15 going to Palomar to find resources for this horrible situation. Applied for legal aid, filed dvpo but was denied for emergency court date because the judge likely did not understand that full situation. set for 1/28. No current court date for hearing on custody because of his manipulation. I also found out that the children are being left all day with the schizophrenic aunt as they were being left with the girlfriend. The aunt has no children of her own. Has a history of dislike and hatred toward me, has been committed to a mental institution for months at a time, has a news story online of her biting an officer. The perpetrator is never there.
January 28- DVPO court. Perpetrator, sadly, was not served. Long story short, new court date 2/11. I also have a recording of the schizophrenic aunt on this day calling around trying to get shots for the children on her own resolve.
January 29- entered voluntary dismissal on the case, as per advice of dvpo judge.
January 31- My 8 year old told me that the schizophrenic aunt hit my 3 year old daughter because she spilled a little bit of juice and when he said “can you please not hit my sister” she said “I don’t care”. I have a recording of her calling around trying to get shots for the children for some reason. She has now blocked the children from talking to me and they are showing their fear. Blocked because my son told me that she was hitting them.
February 1- My son snuck to send me an audio message to say that they said you better not call your mother and that they would spank him and put him into timeout.
February 2- was the 30 day mark for the dss investigation. The worker said that if I feared for the children’s safety, I should call the police. I went to the house and called them. They got on the phone with the perpetrator and he told them to take my baby from me. The police took my baby without the perpetrator being present and gave him to the schizophrenic aunt and told me that I would be arrested for trespassing if I didn’t leave. I showed them that the case had been dissolved but they all conspired against me along with him to take my children.
Call with supervisor Amanda Mawson and her advising people with mental illness make perfectly good caretakers and that theres nothing they can do without marks on the children
February 4- Recording of the schizophrenic aunt who has my children, saying that she would let me see the children in a park if I give her their social security cards.
February 5- Dss advising that their investigation will be done on 2/12- 10 days outside of the 30 day window.
February 8- now everyone agrees that with the case being dismissed, the order giving the perpetrator custody is also dismissed.
February 8- now everyone agrees that with the case being dismissed, the order giving the perpetrator custody is also dismissed.
This is my first conversation with captain stephens of stillwater police. Requesting his help.
Feb 19- elijah’s cousin who used to work for cps called me trying to figure out what’s going on because she said someone called her to try to figure it out. (recorded) They broke confidentiality.
Call with the cousin trying to push visitation onto them and the idea of them letting the children talk to me
crystal starts threatening me at around 15 minutes.
crystal starts threatening me at around 15 minutes.
February 20, 2020- My daughter's bday is tomorrow and her abusive father has not only cut off phone convo between us, her friend just said he said that elijah said mimi is not allowed to play Roblox with me. What kind of shenanigans is this. Yesterday her friend said she seemed sad. She had not been able to talk to mimi because her dad cut off her communication and she was getting worried about mimi. I found her friend on roblox to be able to tell her what's going on with mimi. Mimi has known this friend since she was 2 years old.
Thursday- 2/25/21- Waited to go to court to be heard on custody. Got there and this:
Court minute: JUDGE KULLING: THE PETITIONER APPEARS PRO SE. THE RESPONDENT APPEARS PRO SE. A REPRESENTATIVE FOR THE DEPARTMENT OF HUMAN SERVICES APPEARS AND REQUEST A GUARDIAN AD LITEM BE APPOINTED IN THIS CASE. THE COURT NOW APPOINTS VIRGINIA BANKS AS THE GUARDIAN AD LITEM. THE COURT DENIES THE PETITIONER'S REQUEST FOR A TEMPORARY ORDER AND ORDERS THE CHILDREN TO REMAIN WHERE THEY ARE AND NOT TO BE REMOVED FROM THIS STATE. THE CHILDREN ARE TO BE MADE AVAILABLE TO THE DEPARTMENT OF HUMAN SERVICES AND TO THE GUARDIAN AD LITEM. THE COURT CONTINUES THE CASE TO MARCH 25, 2021 AT 9:00AM.
There is no reason to keep them involved in this case, they are doing this as an act of terrorism. We don't even live in Oklahoma. My children are missing all of their extracurricular activities and school for this nonsense...and when we just waited 45 days for them to complete their investigation. As soon as it was done they decided to open another one.
2/25/21 later that evening- Elijah admitting crystal has schizophrenia and he has no other options for childcare.
Friday- 2/26/21 - Found the legislation under the Social Security act that gives the judges and attorneys 85,000 per year grant that they put into their pockets to keep dhs/dss/cps involvement inside of cases. Realized this is clearly what is happening to us, because as opposed to judge kulling just making the order for the children to be returned to me. They chose to have the 4th dhs investigations open when one was just closed and there are no new allegations. They are trying to earn the money they get from the gov't while my children are in danger.
2/26/21- Today Oklahoma County worker stopped by elijas cousin's house looking for me. This doesn't make sense because their investigation is closed. This domestic terrorism will come to an end real soon watch and see.
March 9, 21 call with Payne county dhs child welfare director. I had to take another call from the NC DA and we still have not been able to reconnect.
March 20, 2021- Sad message from the NC Attorney General's office stating they don't have oversight on county DHS...no one does
March 26, 2021- Judge Kulling recuses himself from the case due to admitted bias, having worked closely with DHS as a DA before becoming a judge, not being able to comprehend our grievance is with DHS.
After the hard process of getting Kulling recused, here comes the new judge, Thomas. We resubmitted the emergency petition to her and she denied it simply citing the previous biased judge denied it. We went to the chief Judge on
April 8, 2021- Have not been able to see or hold my babies since January 4th. I went to take some socks and underwear to my girls and had my 8 year old son go put them on the porch. The violent mentally ill aunt called the police and they tried to say again that I should not go over there. That if I have things to bring to the children I should leave them in the dirt at the corner of the property. They said that my 8 year old taking the things on the porch was him acting as my agent and they wouldn't look good on me. This situation couldn't get any worse.